Question 1. Who shares the house?
List each group once. A group can be one person, a couple, or a whole household.
Group names (optional, for example: The Murphys, Priya & Sam, The Lees)
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Time
Everyone wants the same few weeks: school breaks, long weekends, the best of the summer. A good system cannot add more of those days. It writes down how they pass between groups, before anyone books.
There are four common ways to share. None is right for every house. Choose the one closest to how your group already lives, then decide what happens to holidays and to the nights nobody uses. An empty house still costs the same to run, so a night that goes to someone who wants it helps everyone.
List each group once. A group can be one person, a couple, or a whole household.
Group names (optional, for example: The Murphys, Priya & Sam, The Lees)
Pick the way that sounds most like your group. You can change it next year.
Every house has its own big weekends. A clear rule for the ones that matter most at yours means the same weekend is not decided again every year.
Plans change. Decide how an open night reaches someone who wants it.
Money
Money is easier to talk about before anyone owes anything. Start with a year, not a bill: the mortgage if there is one, what the house costs to run, and a steady amount saved for the big repairs every house needs, like a roof or a furnace.
Then split it equally or by ownership share, and decide whether stays carry a nightly fee. Plan for a quiet year too: the property tax is the same whether anyone comes or not.
Rough numbers are fine. Include the mortgage if there is one, and remember the bills that come once a year.
These are example amounts. Change them to your house's.
Total for the year$18,000
Equal shares are simplest. If some groups own more of the house, split by ownership share.
Each group pays$500a month, or $6,000 a year
Each year, at the meeting
The amounts are set again from what the house actually cost. If a year runs short, the difference is added to next year's amounts.
A new washing machine is a repair. Replacing a table that has been at the house for fifty years is a different kind of decision.
Care
Name a house lead, so everyone knows who to ask first. Repairs, the money, and scheduling can go to other people. Agree when each job passes on, so no one carries the house forever.
Write everything else for someone arriving late, in the rain, for the first time. Where the water shutoff is. Who to call when the heat stops. What to do before leaving. A short list on the kitchen counter helps everyone leave the house ready for the next group.
One house lead, and other people for jobs like repairs, the money, or scheduling if that suits your group. Agree when each job passes to someone else.
Jobs someone else can take on (optional; the house lead does the rest)
A few rules everyone knows before they come: how many people can stay, pets, smoking, when to leave, and a short list for the end of a trip.
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Together
Every group needs a way to say yes. Name one lead per group so each group answers with one voice, and agree what counts as a decision before you need one. A few decisions may matter enough that every group should agree, so nobody is outvoted on them.
Then meet once a year, in the same month, with this plan in front of you. Keep what worked, change what did not, and write down what is still open. Every few years, some houses go through the whole plan from the start, so each generation agrees to it for itself.
Agree what counts as a yes before the first big decision arrives.
These always need every group (optional)
Optional: ten more to think about
You do not have to settle these today. Mark what you already agree on, and the rest goes into your plan as a list to talk about.
Questions marked Take to a lawyer are about ownership. Your plan says what you want; a lawyer can draft the terms.
Shares and the next generation
Owning, using, and paying are three different things, and groups change size over the years. One group may own half the house. One branch may be three people while another grows to fourteen. Decide whether time stays the same for every group, follows ownership, or follows how many households a group has.
One day, every share passes to someone. Without a plan, one share can divide between four children, then twelve grandchildren. Talking about it now, while everyone can say what they want, spares families a hard conversation later.
The children who grew up at the house will build lives of their own. Decide when a new household gets its own time and its own say, so it does not depend on anyone asking.
Partners who marry into the family often love the house for decades. Whether they can hold a share, and what happens to it if a marriage ends, is easier to decide before it is about anyone in particular.
Leaving and selling
Lives change. Agree the path out while everyone can talk freely: notice, who can buy, how the price is set, and when payment is due. A clear exit lets someone leave without making the house harder to share.
Selling a place people love is hard to talk about. Agreeing now how many owners must say yes means nobody has to make that decision alone.
Money, guests, and decisions
Anyone can have a hard year. Agreeing the steps now, before it is about anyone in particular, makes it easier to handle kindly.
Lending the house to friends is one of the nicest parts of owning it. Agree who can come, and who looks after them while they are there.
Renting out empty weeks can pay a real part of the costs. It also means extra cleaning, reviews, and tax and insurance questions, so ask an accountant before you start.
Now and then a group will be evenly split, or someone will still object after a vote. Agreeing the next step ahead of time gives everyone a clear way forward.
When you are ready
Try it on your own first. When the calendar looks right, SplitHaus gives you one link to send your group. It opens with your message and the calendar for your house, and nobody needs an account to read it.
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Your calendar and booking rules
You check each one before you save, and you can change any of them later. Questions 1 to 10 become the house plan, which everyone at the house can read. Questions 11 to 20 stay in your own copy.
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Common questions
The fairest system is one everyone understood before the first booking. Taking turns in a set order works when people like to plan a year ahead. A draft, where groups take turns picking dates, works when the same weeks are in demand. Matching preferences works when schedules differ. It is hard to do fairly by hand, so SplitHaus Match does it for you. Booking as you go, with limits, works when there is usually room. Whatever you choose, move the order each year so no group always has the best weeks.
Yes. Answer the questions on this page and the playbook writes the agreement for you in plain sentences: how you share the calendar, split the costs, look after the house, make decisions, and handle the stays themselves. Print it with a line for each group to sign, or email yourself a link to open it before your meeting. It covers how you share the house, not who owns it. Ownership terms belong in papers a lawyer drafts.
Add up a year of costs: the mortgage if there is one, property tax, insurance, utilities, upkeep, and an amount saved for big repairs. Divide it equally, or by ownership share if some groups own more. Collect it monthly so nobody faces a large bill at once. Some groups also add a small nightly fee for whoever stays, which lowers the monthly amount for everyone.
A common starting point is 1 to 2 percent of the home's value each year. Older houses and houses near salt water often need more, so ask someone who knows yours. Keep it in a separate fund that everyone can see, and agree in advance what it can be used for, so a new roof is a plan instead of a surprise.
Start by agreeing which holidays matter most at your house, because every house has its own. Then decide them separately from the rest of the calendar. The most common rule is that each major holiday goes to one group and passes to the next group every year. Other houses count holidays for more of a group's share, or keep them open for everyone to come together. Without a rule, the same group can end up with the same holiday every year without anyone choosing it.
Start by writing down what already happens, including the traditions everyone assumes. Then look at what has changed: more households, grandchildren with their own schedules, and owners who live far away. Keep the traditions people care about, and write down the rules that everyone has been working out on their own. Agree the new plan at a meeting where every branch is represented.
Yes, in a few ways. Families often share for decades, so the hard questions are about the next generation: who inherits a share, and when grown children get their own time. Friends usually buy in at one point in their lives, so the hard questions are about change: someone moves away, marries, has children, or needs their money back. Friends are also more likely to have put in different amounts, so costs are often split by share. Either way, it helps to write the plan down together.
No. This plan covers how you share time, money, and care. Ownership questions belong with a lawyer who knows your state: whose name is on the title, whether to hold the house in an LLC or a trust, what happens if someone wants to sell, and what happens when a share passes to the next generation. If you already have a trust or LLC, this plan sits alongside it, and where the two differ, the legal papers decide.
Often, yes. Many trusts and LLCs say who owns the house, how shares pass on, and which decisions need everyone. Then they leave the everyday rules to the owners: how the calendar is shared, how costs are split each year, and who looks after the house. Those rules often live in people's heads. Writing them down next to the legal papers means every branch, and every new generation, reads the same plan.
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